I make stuff for presents and more so this year because of money issues, it’s more thoughtful, it’s something unique etc and I love getting handmade presents myself. However, I have four males to buy for this year and it occurred to me the other day that males are not as well catered for in the handmade department as the girls! I even looked on Etsy yesterday in their gift guides section and under presents for men/dad/children etc, there was not much on offer. In the children’s/teens section it was all geared towards girls.
So what about the boys?
I talked to a male friend last night and casually mentioned handmade presents and he said “it’s a girl thing” so I asked him to think of something he might like someone to make for him. He wasn’t interested in getting something knitted, or some kind of man bag (hinted that was a bit “gay”), or any of the other suggestions I threw out there. In fact he said “all these things are what women think men want, not what they actually want”.
Now I read the handmade posts on my friends list this morning and they are all about what presents to make for dads, boyfriends, brothers etc. I have also read the generic boyfriend thread on craftster (approx 800 posts). I still can’t find something that I think my nephew, cousin, friend, BIL would be excited about opening up on Christmas day.
So why are there not more options for the menfolk?
I have a 12 yr old nephew, he’s at that stage where he’s tool cool for kids stuff and he’s in to rock and skateboarding. I’ve made him personalised stuff via cafepress before, but I don’t want to do that every time.
I have a friend in his twenties who doesnt want knitted anything, or a man bag/messenger bag, or a handmade ipod cover etc
I have a cousin in his 30s also sans ideas for him and a BIL who doesn’t seem to be into much although he might like an ipod cover (maybe)
I need help and I’m not the only one. I think there’s a serious lack of handmade present options for men.
Suggestions needed, ideas appreciated. Hopefully we can help each other
What do men want?